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Steps For Dealing With Betrayal

Darryl Bachmeier Aug 8, 2019 Social

When we think about betrayal, we instantly consider the affair. However, betrayal comes in many forms. It can be as simple as a gossip or a business betrayal that cost you millions. There are many types and all of them can cause a lot of pain, but there are steps you need to take and recover yourself. They can be used for all types of betrayal and you will be surprised how effective they are. Leave or stay with a person who betrayed you The first thing you must do when dealing with betrayal is to make a clear and simple decision. Can you live with the same person who betrayed you? When it comes to an affair, odds are high you will leave that person. After all, this isn’t something easy you can forgive in a matter of hours and this isn’t something many people can live with. This...

Staying connected with your partner

Darryl Bachmeier Aug 3, 2019 Social

In a relationship, there comes many phases, starting with the honeymoon phase to the comfort zone, couples may end up disconnected at a point in their relationships. The disconnectedness is partly contributed by lack of attention, whereas a major role is played by the response of couples to the challenges in life. In the beginning, you are unfamiliar with your partner, you start exploring each other’s interests and maintain a harmonious relationship by accepting your partner and compromising for each other. As time passes by, you enter a phase where there is nothing hidden or to be told, here the comfort zone starts, but as you move further in life, you come across responsibilities, you may start having kids and family, you need to balance between financial and family responsibilities. So here is the time when both of you may get busy doing your efforts to make things happen and...

Societal Pressure We Face

Darryl Bachmeier Aug 2, 2019 Social

We are human beings. We are social beings. We cannot live without society. In society, we help each other and try to make a good living for ourselves. Most of us focus on minding our own business. But sometimes elderly people, mostly relatives, always put their nose in our lives. They want us to do certain things in our lives. Not only elderly people but also our parents, boss, friends, and almost everyone in society expects something from us. But expectations are not the problem. It is natural to have some expectations for someone. This becomes a problem when they pressure us to achieve their expectations. We all have our own set of societal pressures. It differs from person to person. But some of the pressures are common and universal. Here is a list of some of the common societal pressures we face. Be successful It is natural to expect...

Send all Enemies Love

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 23, 2019 Social

An enemy can be defined as someone you feel negative emotions towards, such as feelings of hate, jealousy, or someone you dislike to a great extent. It can be someone that you meet at any stage of your life, whether it is a high school bully or a competitor for your business. The feelings usually last for an extended period, and it can be quite challenging to put all differences aside and truly accept them. Our enemies can range from mellow hurt, to a real offense or to someone who has ruined our lives forever. They may assault us or simply talk bad behind our back and sometimes may go to the extent of mistreating us considering our values. Our enemies might be made based on a difference of opinions in our profoundly charged religious and political atmosphere. Almost everybody can distinguish at any rate that one specific individual with...

How to Master Workplace Politics?

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 17, 2019 Social

Whenever you think about office politics, controversies, arguments, backstabbing, and leg-pulling come into your mind. It seems like a dirty business where everyone has their hands in whether they like it or not. No matter what you think about it, office politics can’t be avoided. It greatly influences how the organization runs, how the teams correspond with each other, and most importantly how you survive your career as an employee in such an environment. Since you’re already a part of office politics so why not indulge yourself in ‘good’ politics that promotes you and your team’s interests in the company’s projects without compromising on your values or principles. How to identify Good Politics from Bad Politics? Bad politics is what everyone talks about - rumors, backstabbing, maneuvering, and conspiracy. It’s when people make ways to progress in the organization at any cost, let it be suppressing others or devaluing their...

Tips For Having A Great Conversation With Anyone

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 16, 2019 Social

If you want to have a great conversation, the first thing to know is that there are no tricks here. There are tips and steps you need to take, and precisely that is going to be our topic for today. Here you can see the best possible tips that can help you have a conversation with any person. Yes, you can use them on your partner or on a potential one and expect a great outcome. Without further ado, let’s start sharing. You must be interested in that person Having a great conversation isn’t possible if you are not interested in that specific person. There is no way to mimic this and there is no way to trick that person, period. Many of you have tried that and failed. The reason is simple. When we are interested in a person, the entire brain and body language change and adapt. The...

Know When To Shut Up And When To Talk

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 13, 2019 Social

It is valuable wisdom to know when to open and close your mouth. We will talk when we should and should not talk. However, many successful people do very less of this, especially those who are aware of the value of being silent. Here are some examples of how good it is for you not to say anything. When you want to edit someone This is mainly for the new acquaintance or a senior. If someone says, “it costs a million dollars for a pop company,” there are times when you have to fix things like you say pop and it’s not true. When you set a big goal You may think that revealing your thoughts to others will enhance your possibilities of accomplishing your set goals, but research states the opposite. Peter Colwitcher, an NYU psychology professor, found in four different studies that individuals who have their goals within...

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