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Focus on the good in others

Darryl Bachmeier Jun 9, 2020 Social

Don’t you want to live a positively present life? Well, finding the good in others is an essential part of it. However, it can be challenging. It’s especially hard to focus on the good in others when you’ve been disappointed so many times… But let me tell you a secret – when you expect good from others, they feel more motivated to actually do good. Maybe you disagree, but I think that all people are essentially good. Just focus on their intentions if you don’t believe me. Even when people don’t do good things, most of the time, they did have good intentions. Focusing on the good in others isn’t about putting rose-colored glasses on. It’s about taking the smug-colored glasses off and seeing things clearly for the first time in a while. The truth is, when you focus on the good in others, you aren’t ignoring the facts, you’re...

Importance of Family

Darryl Bachmeier Mar 20, 2020 Social
Impoprtance of family. Father, mother and baby snuggle in bed. Happy family.

We all want to belong, it is our inherent desire, and it’s why we cooperate, support common causes, feel nationalism, and that’s the reason for building villages, or cities. Fortunately, for us, that desire has been begun with loving parents and siblings in a home, which was our laboratory for experimenting with our potential, beliefs, and identity. Family is the first and the most critical place for involving in, as it meets our belonging needs in addition to having people by our side through hard times, providing us with confidence, and helping us to be strong enough to face our problems. Clearly, there is no doubt we all need to foster our family connections and enhance relationships within our families amid our daily routines get in the way of time together. To make things easier, here are some suggestions to do that. Don’t forget the special occasions and events Like...

Are you the reflection of people you spend time with?

Darryl Bachmeier Mar 20, 2020 Social

You are free to choose your actions and words. You have the power to change your outcomes. We all believe this myth; it is a myth because this is not applied to all the situations. Sometimes we are simply influenced by the social influence circulating us. We tend to behave based on the environment and the environment is made of people and other living beings along with climatic conditions. Social influence and the human mind Influence is uncontrollable as we are a part of this society we belong to we have 50% of its influence. But this also depends on several other factors for example, how easily we are convinced by others, how flexible we are, how much we pay attention to them, how frequently we interact within a certain social environment and so on. For example, if someone works in a bar it is more likely for the person...

Importance of Making and Keeping Friends

Darryl Bachmeier Mar 19, 2020 Social

Human beings are social animals and can be highly involved in different kinds of social relationships. We are connected with many other people in many different ways. For example, we have family’s relationships, working relations, neighbourhood associations and many other forms of similar connections. Some of them may be represented in our life, some may not. However, there is one particular type that is extremely important for every person. It is the most helpful, essential, and necessary to have a kind of relationship. I am talking about friends and associations with them. Why is that so important to Have Friends? There are times where you find yourself in a situation that you cannot control, things are looking horrible. You have nowhere to go, or you really need to talk to someone, or borrow some cash, or whatever else. In some of these cases you may be lucky to have family...

How To Know When Someone Loves You?

Darryl Bachmeier Mar 19, 2020 Social
Young couple in love. Outside in the snow. Passionately embracing each other.

Love is an amazing feeling. It is human nature to feel loved. To identify the telltale signs when someone is in love with you, here are some of the obvious situations that you might experience around the one who has fallen in love with you! Physical closeness When someone is in love with you, saying I love you is not as powerful as his or her body language. Those who even do not say that they love you if they act like the one they are your true lovers. They want to spend time with you and you can feel how close they want to be with you most of the time in a day. They find situations to touch you with affection. Sometimes they brush your hair with their fingers and other times they hold you with a gentle touch. There are innumerable ways to show physical closeness in...

How To Deal With Negative People

Darryl Bachmeier Mar 19, 2020 Social

Have you ever wondered what makes us happy? Wealth, fame, beauty or strength may give you some temporary joy, but one of the most significant factors for happiness lies behind positivity. Positivity is mainly embodied in the way people treat you, especially those who have things in common. However, luck may not be always on your side to meet only this kind of person. You will definitely encounter people who have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. They may be your friends, co-workers, classmates. Accordingly, to avoid getting yourself drained dealing with negative people, the tips below are especially focused on helping you out with it. Dig Deeper Without Slipping into the Hole Although it does not completely justify negativity, it is easier to be compassionate when you try to understand where it comes from. Are they negative because they hate their job,...

What is a People Pleaser?

Darryl Bachmeier Sep 12, 2019 Social

Perhaps you find yourself in situations that you do not want to be in but can’t seem to say ‘no’ to the person. Perhaps you feel used by others. These are the tell-tale signs of a people pleaser. If you resonate with any of the above statements, then this article is for you. What is a People Pleaser? A people pleaser is a person that will go to all lengths to please others. They are willing to do anything for others just to please them and make others like them, even if it is sacrificing their mental health and wellbeing. How to check whether You Are a People Pleaser? People pleasers can be identified via the following points. Check them to see if any of them resonate with your person: The constant need for validation. (Trying their best to do whatever the other person needs.) Constantly finding oneself in an...

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