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Ways to Develop Emotional Intimacy

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 11, 2020 Social

Humans are social beings. No one wants to wide up an old, lonely, and an abandoned building in the farthest corner of a dark street. That’s why we struggle to build relationships. That’s why we seek a soul we can connect with and share our lives. That’s why we search for someone who helps bring out the best in us. However, a loving relationship only lasts where intimacy is involved. When the relationship is new, and the couple is young, they make love a lot; hence sexual intimacy blossoms. However, as time passes by, things can take a dramatic turn. From caring for their young children to dealing with aging, sickly parents, building careers, to running a home and finances, sex takes a back seat. That’s when most couples will begin complaining about missing intimacy in their relationship. Most people think that intimacy is synonymous with sex, but that is...

How to Deal with Jealousy in Relationships?

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 10, 2020 Social

Human nature is generally based on behaviors, emotions, and feelings. When we get fond of someone, we generally build up feelings of possession and ownership towards them. These feelings usually come out of our love and association towards them and the role we play in each other’s lives. However, at worst, our feelings of possessions can turn to feelings of jealousy when there’s some sense of insecurity, fear, or anxiety. When we talk about relationships, feelings of jealousy usually arise when we get to know about the ex(es) of our partners or our partner starts getting busy with something else or hanging out with other friends. We may feel jealous thinking our partner might be more affectionate towards others compared to us. Out of jealousy, we might start thinking that our best friends or partners have some sort of feelings towards others. However, it’s possible that our thoughts and imaginations...

What is a Healthy Relationship?

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 8, 2020 Social

Every relationship goes through stages, most of which come in ups and downs. It is normal for first time lovers to want to believe that their relationship has everything needed to keep them happy for a long time. But the truth is that relationships undergo changes in different facets. Partners change after a while and adopt new characters over time. It will take a great deal of commitment and willingness to pursue after this change and ensure that you adapt to these changes. In the event that one of the partners is unable to adapt, the situation becomes one in which the two become incompatible. Soon they find themselves asking, ‘How did we get here?’. This is the bedrock of an unhealthy relationship. Nobody wants that for themselves. Unhealthy relationships are toxic and they are capable of sucking out life and love from the partners until they begin to resent...

How to Give a Great First Impression

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 4, 2020 Social

The first few minutes of a first time meeting are more powerful towards shaping the future of a relationship than you can ever imagine. Within the first 30 to 60 seconds of meeting a person, people can begin to judge and tell if they like them or not. There will only be one first time meeting, meaning you have only one chance at making that first impression. From the scenarios of job interviews, meeting a prospective client to starting up a new job, you will need to be at your best to ensure that you start up on the right note. This includes your use of vocabulary, your demeanor and even body language. This short period of assessment needs to be packed with a lot of statement if you are to leave a lasting positive impression on the other party. First impressions are easy to form but quite hard to...

Simple Ways of Making Small Talk

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 3, 2020 Social

You see your long-lost friend you haven’t seen for a while approaching from a distance. Instead of running towards him and give him a warm hug, you wish for the ground to open up and swallow you whole. You have nothing against your friend. In fact, you are happy to see him. But just a sheer thought of having a small talk with him sends cold chills down your spine. So, you take out your phone, pretend to be in a serious talk with your boss, and just say a quick hello to him when you finally meet. You are not alone. I feel you because I have been there done that, so I know what you feel by heart. You struggle to hold small talk both with strangers and close relatives and friends you often do not meet. What is A Small Talk? Small talk is a clear, informal...

Why do others disappoint

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 2, 2020 Social

Unless you live your life like a monk, people have deceived you. This is one of the biggest challenges in relationships. Even the ones we love and care the most will not live up to our expectations consistently. We want them to know how we feel, or we want them to respond to a particular need or desire, or they may have other perceptions than we do. Why do people always disappoint me? Why do people always disappoint me? If I always give my all, why do others miss me? Most of the people ask themselves these questions because they look for answers with frustration and sadness. If you often feel like this, you may stop communicating with people for fear that it will happen again. Here are some reasons why people always disappoint you Each person has their own values ​​and way of seeing the world and has love,...

Managing conflict

Darryl Bachmeier Jun 28, 2020 Social

Whatever the cause of disagreements and conflicts at home or at work, these skills will help resolve the conflict in a creative way and make your relationship stronger and stronger. So, let’s know what conflict is and how one should manage it? What is conflict? Conflict is known as a normal part of any healthy relationship. After all, two people cannot accept everything. The key is not to try to avoid fear or conflict, but to learn how to deal with it in a healthy way. When conflict is mismanaged, it can do great harm to a relationship. Still, when handled in a respectful, positive way, conflict provides an opportunity to strengthen the bond between two people. Whether you are experiencing conflict at home, at work or at school; learning these skills will help you to resolve the differences in a healthy way and build stronger, and more rich relationships....

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