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Givers vs Takers

Darryl Bachmeier Aug 2, 2020 Social

Who are Takers? Before everything else, we love mulling over things in a one-dimensional way. Takers are not necessarily cutthroat, treacherous living beings. It is better that we more willingly try to focus on reading their psychology. Takers are simply those who tend to receive a lot more than they are willing to give. They believe that to pull through the competition of life; the best strategy is to give less and take more. They deal with reciprocity to their advantage. Self-Promote Takers would always march to the beat of their drum. In other words, they tend to promote themselves to an extent where they will no more think of anyone else in the scenario. They are often too wrapped up in themselves, and in most cases, they do not even realize that they are crossing all the thresholds of self-love. The renowned psychologist and professor of the Wharton School...

Supporting Your Partner

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 16, 2020 Social

People enter relationships in search of a number of mutual benefits. One of such is the support that comes from having someone to lean on when we face challenges. This support isn’t one that comes occasionally. It should be something that is readily available at any time of any day. This support is needed especially when one’s partner is going through a major change or transition in their life, such as during the start of a new business or the loss of a family member. If one party in the relationship refuses to bring their own quota to the table, the other may begin to feel detached and unwanted, leading to a toxic relationship. The support from partners can come in different forms, such as financial, emotional or spiritual support. The most important among these is the emotional support, because it serves as a basis for all the others. For...

Managing your Boundaries - How to Manage the People around You

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 16, 2020 Social

It is said that the people around you have the power to make or mere your life. Yes, that’s just the fact; the type of people you allow in your life is in a perfect position to make you fly and reach your highest peak, and on the contrary, they can also draw you down to your lowest. This is why you must take your boundaries seriously – protect them with your life if need be because there lies both your present and future. But before we proceed to talk about the way you manage your boundaries, you should ask yourself, what and where is my boundary? It is simple, your boundary is ‘you,’ and you are your boundary! Your boundary is your convenience, your space, your everything; in other words, call your boundary your life. So, the kind of people you allow in there must be reviewed because if...

How to Be Assertive

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 15, 2020 Social

Have you ever been in a situation when you know you should speak up for yourself, and you don’t? Or maybe in times you let others take advantage of you and accept other’s interests, thoughts, or feelings. Often, we don’t speak up about our needs and boundaries to not sound rude. That is why nice people are screwed for being too empathetic while giving more weight to other rights, wishes, desires, and wants. The problem is nice people are not always nice as their primary concern is to be perfect in other people’s eyes than to themselves. They tend to lie frequently, and their actions are led by other person judgments. All their affections, kindness, and concern tend to wane over time, which gradually results in more sacrifices and resentment. So, how do we get rid of this? The key to avoiding this is by learning how to be assertive....

How to Ask for Help and Why Should You Do It

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 14, 2020 Social

Be it to strangers or even close ones, asking for help is an inevitable thing to do. To say the least, it’s something that we all have done at some point in our life, no matter how uncomfortable it made us feel. Regardless of how “mundane” a help may seem, asking for it is not that easy and is weirdly uncomfortable to many. According to neuropsychologists, the fear of asking for help is something that’s embedded in human nature. And, this adds up to the fact that we all have it to some extent. While the degree of fear of asking for help may differ from person to person, sometimes the crippling discomfort that comes with it tends to get in the way of us from getting help. If you happen to be a person who’s a bit too wary when it comes to asking for help, keep on reading...

Everything You Need to Know About Shyness

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 12, 2020 Social

Who doesn’t like shy babies trying to hide from anything against its familiarity? It is often mistaken as an admirable trait. It may be fun when you’re little, but it could soon turn out to be a challenge as children reach teenage and adulthood. The film industry often uses shyness as a cute romantic gesture. But it’s not always like that in real life. People often have to deal with many struggles because of shyness. We completely feel those struggling souls. So, we got down and researched to help you understand everything about shyness and ways to overcome it. Here’s everything you need to know about shyness. What Causes Shyness? There is no single answer to this question. Many things can trigger shyness. If you think only shy babies grow up to become shy, then let us assure you it’s completely wrong. An outgoing child can sometimes turn into a...

Providing Value to Others

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 12, 2020 Social

You must have heard of the phrase “DO GOOD, HAVE GOOD” What does it mean? It is empirical that whatever you do, will come back to you, similarly whatever you add-on to others’ life it will reflect on your life as well. This is a matter of giving value to others and being valued yourself in return. So how much output you gain from your surroundings is all dependent on how much input you give-in in the first place. Here we will talk about What is the value, how you provide it to people, and what are your intentions about the value you are providing. Value can be physical or abstract, it is the feeling of the importance of something in someone’s life. In terms of physical worth, we consider the material objects that a person values like money, property, job, quality of life, etc. But when we talk about...

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