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Why You Must Stop Sarcasm

Darryl Bachmeier Nov 14, 2020 Social

Sarcasm is when we use irony to mock a person or anything else. As you can see, this isn’t something we need to use. It can hurt others and there are no benefits. An interesting fact is that being sarcastic will require you more sophisticated thinking skills when telling the obvious. So, why you are sarcastic, and can you eliminate this issue? Here’s why you are sarcastic sometimes or all the time You may believe that there are countless or extremely complicated reasons why you are sarcastic. In reality, there are only 3 reasons and for some of you, these are obvious. Don’t forget that you may have all three reasons or just one. But, in order to stop being sarcastic, you need to know why you have been doing this all along. You are insecure The first and the most common reason why you or anyone else uses sarcasm...

Live Up To Your Promises

Darryl Bachmeier Nov 6, 2020 Social

A person is known by his or her character and integrity. Living up to one’s words is a test of honesty and integrity and makes the person reliable and respectable. Every relationship is based on trust and honesty, and even if you have to go a few extra miles to keep up with your words, it is worth taking the effort. If you want the relationships in your life to be healthy, live up to your promises no matter what happens. Trust Is The Foundation Of Life Whatever you do in life is built upon trust. Your personal as well as professional relationships, suffer if you do not show respect to your words. It binds people and keeps everything going like an invisible force. Live Up To What You Say In Your Professional Life Trust is not limited to your family life. It is also the foundation of your professional...

Beyond Tradition - Respecting the Elderly

Darryl Bachmeier Oct 16, 2020 Social

They say the journey is more important than the destination. We are all heading the same end of life but what we do while trudging through it can make a difference, even to people we encounter along the way. We will most probably be drawn to have close relationships with people around the same age as we do. But it is also inevitable that we will meet or live with people younger or older than us. Children need our care and guidance while the elderly will cherish our companionship and time. The latter would most probably impact us greater than anyone. Aside from learning from their experience, we get to have a glimpse of our future selves. Nuggets of Wisdom Engaging in conversations with the elderly is a different kind of experience. Somehow, it is almost automatic that they will share pieces of their past lives with us. What starts...

Relationship between Connection and Belonging

Darryl Bachmeier Oct 14, 2020 Social

Humans are social creatures. Not only colleagues, co-workers, acquaintances or Facebook “friends” but also most people have a deep desire to connect with others deeply and closely. We yearn to feel valued and supported. We long to share our thoughts, feelings, and life with others. We want to feel what others need. These desires not only represent the physical or digital presence of others but also reflect a basic human need to associate with them. Whether it is with their partners, their children, a family of birth, everything I see every day as a colleague or an employer at work is all connected and owned. What is the connection? Suppose you think about your day to day, thinking about your relationship with you. In that case, we are disconnected from ourselves when we are not involved in what is happening to us.  We avoid strong situations in our lives or...

Keeping Spark Alive In Your Relationship

Darryl Bachmeier Oct 12, 2020 Social

The spark between two people is a foundation for the relationship. It develops love, passion, and care all at the same time. Sadly, the spark isn’t eternal and eventually, it will start to fade away. When that happens, your relationship or marriage becomes a habit and nothing more. As such, keeping spark alive is essential if you want to have a long and happy marriage or relationship for as long as possible. Here are tricks that will help you with that. Care about memories you two have Keeping spark alive cannot be done if you don’t look in the past occasionally. The goal is to remember of a great time, an event, or anything that involves you two. Discuss and remind your loved one about that event. This is mandatory due to the fact your partner will know how much the time with him/her means to you even after so...

Dealing with Rude People

Darryl Bachmeier Aug 24, 2020 Social

We all face the legitimate role of difficult people in our lives. Some crawl over us when we order daily coffee at Starbucks; others sit with us at work every day. Still, others we may be in a close relationship with. No matter who it is, it is important to consider ways to deal with our reactions to them properly. Giving these people an attitude in return is easy, especially since we do not think we will ever see them again. However, by stopping, thinking, and responding correctly, you can feel much nicer to communicate. Below are some tips and tricks you can apply while dealing with those who are far from friendly: Be quiet at all times Suppose you are easily active or have a habit of complaining about minor hiccups such as a non-cooperating Outlook calendar or a faulty printer. In that case, you may be an easy...

Ensuring Your Relationship Survives When You Move in Together

Darryl Bachmeier Aug 20, 2020 Social

Cohabitation may not seem that different to couples who already spend the majority of their time together. In fact, it may even sound like the next step in a relationship once you’ve reached that level of comfort. But it is a big deal and can wreak havoc on stable relationships if not timed well. Worse may be in order if the person you’re about to move in with isn’t the right one! We suggest taking some steps before you shack up: Talk about the Money A very glaring indicator that proves – or disproves – if you should live with each other is your position on finances. Not being on the same page may make things difficult later on. Moreover, it’s not just about knowing how much the other person earns per month. Love won’t be paying the rent or cable bill, and it shouldn’t be the only basis when...

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