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Revenge - Why Is It Such A Bad Idea And How To Resist It

Darryl Bachmeier Mar 19, 2020 Emotions
Angry man holds knife ready to stab. Man seeks revenge for wrongdoing.

It is payback time. Someone has done you a harm, and now you want to inflict harm on him or her. You want retribution. We see it all the time in so many movies and TV shows. A man seeks revenge for what has been done to him, and he gets it. Wouldn’t you love the chance to say such powerful words now you get to have your revenge? Does revenge belong in our real lives? We see it as a way of getting closure after we have been wronged, and it can be quite rewarding in the heat of the moment. Still, does it stay rewarding? What it actually does is prolongs the suffering of the original wrongdoing. It means that, instead of healing your wounds, you are keeping them fresh. It re-opens your wounds and aggravates them. Therefore, in reality, you are punishing yourself instead of the one...

How to Be More Grateful

Darryl Bachmeier Mar 19, 2020 Emotions

Every single day of our life may bring us both troubles and lucky circumstances. The possibility of both is about equal. Maybe the next day you will get a raise, or your dog may die, who knows? Nobody. You have to be prepared for everything, and it will be better for you if you do not fall into depression when your career hits a bump. We usually accept the gifts of fate with joy, and that is entirely okay. It is rare, but also understandable, to experience gratitude for a small, every day, common activity, like getting breakfast from your partner. However, can we potentially learn to take the downturns of our fortune and be okay with them too? It seems like we can, and we have to. Here are a few techniques that help you to learn how to be grateful for everything in your life. Gaining Experience Anything...

Happiness Defined - How to increase it

Darryl Bachmeier Mar 19, 2020 Emotions

It may be odd to ask, but how do you define happiness? Does your happiness have the same criteria as others? As you may hear it very often, do you think it makes a great difference in your life? Generally speaking, happiness relates to life satisfaction and moments of pleasure. Therefore, a happy person is someone who frequently experiences positive emotions, such as joy and pride and infrequently negative emotions, such as sadness and anger. However, each person summarizes their happiness in objects or things. Let’s read together some and find out whether they’re right or not. Myths and Facts about Happiness What is Happiness? Where Does it Come From? Many people have answered these questions, but which may be closer to reality? Let’s discuss together some opinions to come out with a more clear outlook about what is happiness. Some people see happiness in money. However, the more money...

Attract love into your life

Darryl Bachmeier Mar 19, 2020 Emotions
Young couple in love walk holding hands on the city street.

Love might as well be the meaning of our lives, don’t you agree? With love, everything is possible. It is the most magical occurrence that has been written about and sang about for ages. Every single person in this world wants to have love in his or her lives. Why shouldn’t they? Humans are made to feel and share love. It seems like life suddenly has a purpose again once you meet the love of your life, and everyone is searching for that feeling. Still, not everyone knows how to attract love into his or her life. You have to open yourself up to love. Surround yourself with positive people and avoid the negative ones. You need to know that they are supportive of you. Start putting yourself out there. Go out occasionally because the love of your life is not just going to fall into your lap while you...

All You Need to Know About Loneliness

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 4, 2019 Emotions

Sometimes you need a break from a routine schedule or work and go to a beautiful place and be alone, to figure things out. However, if you develop a feeling of wanting to disappear and not wanting to be found, you could suffer from loneliness. Loneliness is not being alone; it’s a feeling that nobody cares. You can even be lonely in a crowd. Most people think that loneliness affects the old folks and young lone kids alone, but it’s not. Many adults feel they do not have a close friend they can confide in, and some feel unloved. Most people face a challenge in admitting their loneliness to family, colleagues, and friends. But if you notice the following signs in an individual’ he/she could be suffering from loneliness. Here’s how you tell if someone is lonely. Spending a lot of time alone. If you spend a lot of time...

How to Deal with Rejection

Darryl Bachmeier Jun 2, 2019 Emotions

We’ve all been dismissed at some point — regardless of whether it be from a partner, an occupation you applied to, or a gathering of companions. Facing rejection is an essential aspect of living. It is unavoidable. Whichever sort of dismissal you’re confronting, the truth is that rejection is hurtful. When you let rejection affect you psychologically, it can cause a lot of destruction on all parts of your life. Luckily, however, there are ways you can manage rejection that can help you emerge from it more grounded. Getting dismissed doesn’t need to be the end-all-be-all. The experience can assist you with a yearning to become stronger in your life. So, if you’re considering how to manage rejection from your companions, family, or associates, here are the absolute best tips and procedures to help you bob back from experience. Accept rejection as a part of life. Dismissal is an unavoidable...

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