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6 things I wish I knew when I was younger

Darryl Bachmeier Aug 13, 2019 Life

One thing I know for sure is that if someone were to ever build a time machine, I would be the first one to hop on it. We have all made decisions and mistakes in our pasts that we would like to re-do today. Hindsight is 20/20, and even though we cannot do anything about our past, we can always do our best to pass on the torch of wisdom. With that being said, let’s take a look at 6 things I wish I knew when I was younger Money does not buy TRUE happiness Don’t get me wrong, money is easily one of the most essential necessities in our lives, as a lack of money surely buys you a lot of misery. It is necessary for all aspects of our lives from health, education, housing, food to living a comfortable life. But beyond a certain point, we must realize...

Power of the Unspoken Word - Do Your Actions Speak Louder?

Darryl Bachmeier Aug 12, 2019 Social

Communication is perhaps the most primitive of all human activities there is. And it has been constantly evolving ever since, providing people with more ways to express their feelings or convey their messages. However, human communication remains subjective and complex – a single word can have 101 meanings and the odds of a misunderstanding to happen between two communicating humans remains high. The more that our world is becoming interconnected, the more divided we are. And the more that we gain freedom in expressing our thoughts, feelings, convictions, and aspirations, the more we experience solitude and discrimination. What has become of human communication? Understanding communication (and its related behaviors and triggers) is a broad topic to discuss The Power of the Unspoken Word Everything is conceived in the mind. And all the while you thought they remain there until you say it, well, you’re wrong. Without you realizing it, you...

Journey to Self-Mastery

Darryl Bachmeier Aug 11, 2019 Life

We live in a day and age where we have access to an abundance of information at our fingertips, yet at the same time, we fail to have a deeper understanding of ourselves. Having a deeper understanding of our emotions, perspectives and actions can greatly improve our lives in a number of different ways. One way of improving ourselves is to embark on a journey of self-mastery. But what is self-mastery and how can one achieve it? Let’s find out. What is self-mastery? As the word suggests self-mastery is related to having complete control over our own perspectives, actions, and decisions. Having a strong grip on how your mind thinks allows you to shape your life, instead of it being impacted by the surrounding environment. Similarly, self-mastery enables you to respond to situations instead of reacting to them. Quite a lot of times we regret what we said or did...

The secret to a successful life - Watch what you feed your mind

Darryl Bachmeier Aug 10, 2019 Mind

Have you ever had a day when you simply couldn’t focus on your work because your mind was fixated on something terrible that had happened in another part of the world? Or maybe you got into an argument with someone on social media and it left your mind in a bitter state, making you unable to do anything productive? If you can relate to these scenarios, then you are not alone. Millions of people from all over the world face a similar predicament in today’s hyper-connected and hyper-active world. Thanks to the internet and social media, more information is available at our fingertips than we could possibly consume in an entire lifetime. On top of that, the Netflix documentary The Social Dilemma has shown how social media platforms are designed to trap you inside a rabbit hole of extreme content that hacks your mind, habits, and thoughts. At a time...

Insights of Perception vs Reality

Darryl Bachmeier Aug 9, 2019 Mind

Whether it is the business world, the political arena, or marriages, there is always disagreement or conflict: “Perception is the truth.” This proverb is often used to justify an opinion that is not objectively justified or unrelated to reality. It is used as a catalyst to win over others in accepting one’s preferred reality. At the most philosophical level, this proverb creates a sense of relativity (think thinly) in absolute contexts (think the world is flat). The relevance of feeling in our daily lives has always been a topic of debate, with one percent arguing that this is about 30% of what we consider our reality. In contrast, others seem to be more comfortable with figures above 50. Ultimately, it all depends on the individual, collective knowledge, facts and experiences, all of which have a creative influence on the mind, the ability to perceive its reality. Stages of Perception vs...

Steps For Dealing With Betrayal

Darryl Bachmeier Aug 8, 2019 Social

When we think about betrayal, we instantly consider the affair. However, betrayal comes in many forms. It can be as simple as a gossip or a business betrayal that cost you millions. There are many types and all of them can cause a lot of pain, but there are steps you need to take and recover yourself. They can be used for all types of betrayal and you will be surprised how effective they are. Leave or stay with a person who betrayed you The first thing you must do when dealing with betrayal is to make a clear and simple decision. Can you live with the same person who betrayed you? When it comes to an affair, odds are high you will leave that person. After all, this isn’t something easy you can forgive in a matter of hours and this isn’t something many people can live with. This...

The Four Burners Theory - A Guide To Right Balance In Life

Darryl Bachmeier Aug 7, 2019 Success

We all have heard millions of advice regarding balance in life. Sometimes, it feels as if life is a tightrope, and we must learn the art of balancing on it. So what’s the right recipe in life? How do you achieve the right balance between work and personal life? With a limited span of hours in a day, we need to focus on work, career, health, family, and friends. The Four Burners Theory suggests the solution to this work-life balancing dilemma. What is the Four Burners Theory? The Four Burners Theory posturizes life as a stove with four burners. Each burner symbolizes each key area of life. The first quadrant is the family. The second burner is your group of friends. The third burner is health. The fourth burner is work life. The Four Burners Theory says that you have to cut off one burner to be successful in life....

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