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Staying Challenged in Life

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 13, 2020 Life

Life is full of unpredictable challenges coming your way every day. The real deal is not the challenges imposed on you by life but it is your response to those challenges. There may be people who just find the easy way out and escape from the situation, however, the successful ones don’t run away from the clouds of dismay. Growth is not just a biological process of cell division and metabolism to increase in size, it is a holistic phenomenon where not just you grow physically but also improve the skill, capabilities, and behavior towards problem-solving. This type of holistic growth is the result of taking risks and challenging yourself over and over again for reaching a stable state called success. How to stay challenged? Several ways can keep you challenged all the time and make you cope up with the bad weather in life. Know your goals Make clear...

Everything You Need to Know About Shyness

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 12, 2020 Social

Who doesn’t like shy babies trying to hide from anything against its familiarity? It is often mistaken as an admirable trait. It may be fun when you’re little, but it could soon turn out to be a challenge as children reach teenage and adulthood. The film industry often uses shyness as a cute romantic gesture. But it’s not always like that in real life. People often have to deal with many struggles because of shyness. We completely feel those struggling souls. So, we got down and researched to help you understand everything about shyness and ways to overcome it. Here’s everything you need to know about shyness. What Causes Shyness? There is no single answer to this question. Many things can trigger shyness. If you think only shy babies grow up to become shy, then let us assure you it’s completely wrong. An outgoing child can sometimes turn into a...

Providing Value to Others

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 12, 2020 Social

You must have heard of the phrase “DO GOOD, HAVE GOOD” What does it mean? It is empirical that whatever you do, will come back to you, similarly whatever you add-on to others’ life it will reflect on your life as well. This is a matter of giving value to others and being valued yourself in return. So how much output you gain from your surroundings is all dependent on how much input you give-in in the first place. Here we will talk about What is the value, how you provide it to people, and what are your intentions about the value you are providing. Value can be physical or abstract, it is the feeling of the importance of something in someone’s life. In terms of physical worth, we consider the material objects that a person values like money, property, job, quality of life, etc. But when we talk about...

Ways to Develop Emotional Intimacy

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 11, 2020 Social

Humans are social beings. No one wants to wide up an old, lonely, and an abandoned building in the farthest corner of a dark street. That’s why we struggle to build relationships. That’s why we seek a soul we can connect with and share our lives. That’s why we search for someone who helps bring out the best in us. However, a loving relationship only lasts where intimacy is involved. When the relationship is new, and the couple is young, they make love a lot; hence sexual intimacy blossoms. However, as time passes by, things can take a dramatic turn. From caring for their young children to dealing with aging, sickly parents, building careers, to running a home and finances, sex takes a back seat. That’s when most couples will begin complaining about missing intimacy in their relationship. Most people think that intimacy is synonymous with sex, but that is...

The Fine Line Between Genius and Madness

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 11, 2020 Mind

From Einstein to Vincent Van Gogh, throughout history, many iconic names exemplify both genius and insanity. There is no doubting the grandeur of their accomplishments. However, many of their behavioral traits lead us to wonder whether there is a fine line between genius and madness. Let us dive deeper into the discussion. Crazy is merely a label that our society uses to cover-up psychological traits that they don’t understand. This ignorance often goes unaddressed. However, many studies have been conducted to figure out the intricate connection between genius and madness. Some scientists have even gone so far as to find genetic links between genius and madness. The thing is that we have grown up with a certain societal and cultural set of rules that decide what’s normal and what’s disorderly. Anyone who goes off-track from the defined structure of society is labeled as crazy. But are they really? What Makes...

What is a Legacy, and how do you Leave one Worthy of Remembering?

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 10, 2020 Life

It has become a norm amongst people that you can only leave a legacy and not live it, which is so wrong by the way. Legends are not always dead people, we can live a legendary lifestyle only if we work towards it. Leaving a legacy is all about impacting people’s lives; improving them, and making them have a reason to live again. Leaving a legacy is about contributing your quota to the world, leaving it better than you met it. And if you look around you today, many people are living the life of legacy, people who have contributed immensely to the improvement of the world, and will probably leave the world legends. Look around you, we have them in virtually every country, Mr. Bill Gates, Jack Ma, the late Steve Jobs, e.t.c. This set of people have in one way or the other contributed to the development of...

How to Deal with Jealousy in Relationships?

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 10, 2020 Social

Human nature is generally based on behaviors, emotions, and feelings. When we get fond of someone, we generally build up feelings of possession and ownership towards them. These feelings usually come out of our love and association towards them and the role we play in each other’s lives. However, at worst, our feelings of possessions can turn to feelings of jealousy when there’s some sense of insecurity, fear, or anxiety. When we talk about relationships, feelings of jealousy usually arise when we get to know about the ex(es) of our partners or our partner starts getting busy with something else or hanging out with other friends. We may feel jealous thinking our partner might be more affectionate towards others compared to us. Out of jealousy, we might start thinking that our best friends or partners have some sort of feelings towards others. However, it’s possible that our thoughts and imaginations...

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