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Ways to Develop Emotional Intimacy

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 11, 2020 Social

Humans are social beings. No one wants to wide up an old, lonely, and an abandoned building in the farthest corner of a dark street. That’s why we struggle to build relationships. That’s why we seek a soul we can connect with and share our lives. That’s why we search for someone who helps bring out the best in us. However, a loving relationship only lasts where intimacy is involved. When the relationship is new, and the couple is young, they make love a lot; hence sexual intimacy blossoms. However, as time passes by, things can take a dramatic turn. From caring for their young children to dealing with aging, sickly parents, building careers, to running a home and finances, sex takes a back seat. That’s when most couples will begin complaining about missing intimacy in their relationship. Most people think that intimacy is synonymous with sex, but that is...

The Fine Line Between Genius and Madness

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 11, 2020 Mind

From Einstein to Vincent Van Gogh, throughout history, many iconic names exemplify both genius and insanity. There is no doubting the grandeur of their accomplishments. However, many of their behavioral traits lead us to wonder whether there is a fine line between genius and madness. Let us dive deeper into the discussion. Crazy is merely a label that our society uses to cover-up psychological traits that they don’t understand. This ignorance often goes unaddressed. However, many studies have been conducted to figure out the intricate connection between genius and madness. Some scientists have even gone so far as to find genetic links between genius and madness. The thing is that we have grown up with a certain societal and cultural set of rules that decide what’s normal and what’s disorderly. Anyone who goes off-track from the defined structure of society is labeled as crazy. But are they really? What Makes...

What is a Legacy, and how do you Leave one Worthy of Remembering?

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 10, 2020 Life

It has become a norm amongst people that you can only leave a legacy and not live it, which is so wrong by the way. Legends are not always dead people, we can live a legendary lifestyle only if we work towards it. Leaving a legacy is all about impacting people’s lives; improving them, and making them have a reason to live again. Leaving a legacy is about contributing your quota to the world, leaving it better than you met it. And if you look around you today, many people are living the life of legacy, people who have contributed immensely to the improvement of the world, and will probably leave the world legends. Look around you, we have them in virtually every country, Mr. Bill Gates, Jack Ma, the late Steve Jobs, e.t.c. This set of people have in one way or the other contributed to the development of...

How to Deal with Jealousy in Relationships?

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 10, 2020 Social

Human nature is generally based on behaviors, emotions, and feelings. When we get fond of someone, we generally build up feelings of possession and ownership towards them. These feelings usually come out of our love and association towards them and the role we play in each other’s lives. However, at worst, our feelings of possessions can turn to feelings of jealousy when there’s some sense of insecurity, fear, or anxiety. When we talk about relationships, feelings of jealousy usually arise when we get to know about the ex(es) of our partners or our partner starts getting busy with something else or hanging out with other friends. We may feel jealous thinking our partner might be more affectionate towards others compared to us. Out of jealousy, we might start thinking that our best friends or partners have some sort of feelings towards others. However, it’s possible that our thoughts and imaginations...

Intrapreneurship - All you Need to Know

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 9, 2020 Productivity

You must have been all atoned with the concept of entrepreneurship without knowing that other areas exist. Well, the surprise news is that there is another called “Intrapreneurship.” Intrapreneurship is defined as the system where the employee acts as the entrepreneur within or outside his/her workplace. An average Intrapreneur is proactive, self-motivated, and action-oriented and is ready to take steps that guarantee his/her success in achieving innovative service or product. Interpreters have a common philosophy; they believe that failing in a particular venture is not a personal cost, as in an entrepreneur’s case. This is because those organizations they work with will absorb losses that may arise from this failure. Understanding the Concept of Intrapreneurship Intrapreneurship breads an entrepreneurial atmosphere by letting employees use their skills for the benefit of both the employees and the company. On the other hand, Intrapreneurship gives an average employee the freedom to experiment while...

Inner Voices - What do They Mean?

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 9, 2020 Mind

Just after locking your doors home for the weekend hangout, how many of you thought, “did I turn off the stove?” Or “did I forget something?” Or that tingling feeling when you were going for a job interview or sitting for a test and asked yourself, “am I forgetting something?” Yes, some people regularly do this. Such inner conversation makes their life more comfortable. Some physiological experts may even argue that those who have become accustomed to such talking’s cannot even function properly without it. For others, it’s utter nonsense. They think those who engage in such inner monologue are nuts. To them, the idea of conversing with themselves is absurd. Some use these voices in their heads, imagine situations, images, and a combination of these as reference points to lead their lives. If you are one of those who experience these inner voices, this article will articulate these experiences...

How You React Matters Most

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 8, 2020 Life

The famous saying, “10% of what happens in life, and 90% of how you react to it”, still reminds us that our attitude is everything; that is what shapes our beliefs and desires. There will be tough times throughout our lives, but how we interpret them is ours. We always control our emotions in spite of any circumstances. Many blame their circumstances for their shortcomings and as a result, accept the harsh reality of their situation. These people believe that an event is equal to its end. Our attitudes shape our feelings, beliefs and often our behaviors. Our attitudes, while sometimes indifferent, are often positive or negative. They play a huge role in life - which can sometimes be very drastic. Things and events happen that we have no control over. Life is not limited by what happens to you. How you behave in each situation, what you learn from...

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