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Lifelong Learning - Learning Beyond School

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 15, 2020 Mind

Schooling goes beyond attending high school, college, and university. Nothing is wrong with it, though, but when we continue living with those things we have learned from these formal education systems, it becomes a problem. Life itself is a school, and every stage has its lessons; it is a pity that some people had either stopped learning about life or have refused to heed to her lessons. Many people have different understandings of the term “lifelong learning,” but no matter how you view it, the point is that you are going to end up a better person. In this article, you are going to be talking from both sides of the term “lifelong lesson.” The point remains that, no matter how committed we are in formal education, always remember that the school of life has the best lessons. But don’t get it wrong, formal education is as important as the...

How to Be Assertive

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 15, 2020 Social

Have you ever been in a situation when you know you should speak up for yourself, and you don’t? Or maybe in times you let others take advantage of you and accept other’s interests, thoughts, or feelings. Often, we don’t speak up about our needs and boundaries to not sound rude. That is why nice people are screwed for being too empathetic while giving more weight to other rights, wishes, desires, and wants. The problem is nice people are not always nice as their primary concern is to be perfect in other people’s eyes than to themselves. They tend to lie frequently, and their actions are led by other person judgments. All their affections, kindness, and concern tend to wane over time, which gradually results in more sacrifices and resentment. So, how do we get rid of this? The key to avoiding this is by learning how to be assertive....

Learn from Discomfort

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 14, 2020 Life

Let’s talk science, to be precise, Newton’s first law. As he states, a body will maintain its initial state unless given an extra force. No, I won’t explain how this makes sense by talking about the other 2 laws. But, here’s the question, can you relate this law with your life and daily being? We often feel lazy, scared, worried, anxious, and all the psychological dilemma when we even think of doing something new and go on a cruise to search for the undiscovered. This happens because there’s a part of us that resists change and which works to make the inertia law accurate. You must understand by now that feeling uncomfortable is actually a sign of change. Now, you might ask, so can’t change be both good and bad, and either have a 50% chance of happening? You are absolutely right. Everything in this world is uncertain and can...

How to Ask for Help and Why Should You Do It

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 14, 2020 Social

Be it to strangers or even close ones, asking for help is an inevitable thing to do. To say the least, it’s something that we all have done at some point in our life, no matter how uncomfortable it made us feel. Regardless of how “mundane” a help may seem, asking for it is not that easy and is weirdly uncomfortable to many. According to neuropsychologists, the fear of asking for help is something that’s embedded in human nature. And, this adds up to the fact that we all have it to some extent. While the degree of fear of asking for help may differ from person to person, sometimes the crippling discomfort that comes with it tends to get in the way of us from getting help. If you happen to be a person who’s a bit too wary when it comes to asking for help, keep on reading...

Staying Challenged in Life

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 13, 2020 Life

Life is full of unpredictable challenges coming your way every day. The real deal is not the challenges imposed on you by life but it is your response to those challenges. There may be people who just find the easy way out and escape from the situation, however, the successful ones don’t run away from the clouds of dismay. Growth is not just a biological process of cell division and metabolism to increase in size, it is a holistic phenomenon where not just you grow physically but also improve the skill, capabilities, and behavior towards problem-solving. This type of holistic growth is the result of taking risks and challenging yourself over and over again for reaching a stable state called success. How to stay challenged? Several ways can keep you challenged all the time and make you cope up with the bad weather in life. Know your goals Make clear...

Everything You Need to Know About Shyness

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 12, 2020 Social

Who doesn’t like shy babies trying to hide from anything against its familiarity? It is often mistaken as an admirable trait. It may be fun when you’re little, but it could soon turn out to be a challenge as children reach teenage and adulthood. The film industry often uses shyness as a cute romantic gesture. But it’s not always like that in real life. People often have to deal with many struggles because of shyness. We completely feel those struggling souls. So, we got down and researched to help you understand everything about shyness and ways to overcome it. Here’s everything you need to know about shyness. What Causes Shyness? There is no single answer to this question. Many things can trigger shyness. If you think only shy babies grow up to become shy, then let us assure you it’s completely wrong. An outgoing child can sometimes turn into a...

Providing Value to Others

Darryl Bachmeier Jul 12, 2020 Social

You must have heard of the phrase “DO GOOD, HAVE GOOD” What does it mean? It is empirical that whatever you do, will come back to you, similarly whatever you add-on to others’ life it will reflect on your life as well. This is a matter of giving value to others and being valued yourself in return. So how much output you gain from your surroundings is all dependent on how much input you give-in in the first place. Here we will talk about What is the value, how you provide it to people, and what are your intentions about the value you are providing. Value can be physical or abstract, it is the feeling of the importance of something in someone’s life. In terms of physical worth, we consider the material objects that a person values like money, property, job, quality of life, etc. But when we talk about...

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